March 28, 2006

Need

Need - something required and compulsary for continue our life...Do u agree?

Wakaka...wat are the NEED required in the previous' people...i mean during the stone age people...
I guess,
a) Simple foods and drinkable water,
b) Living place [somewhere can take a rest],
c) Simple clothing [good enaf to cover the important parts]

Then after long time process, then get some improve
People need changed to
a) Foods and Clean water,
b) Safety living place, e.g carve, build simple houses, etc..
c) Completed clothing [shirt lo...able to cover the whole body...wakkaa]
d) Simple dry shoes...

Improve again...
a) Nice food and clearn water,
b) Houses for living,
c) Clearn clothing,
d) Proper shoes which can covered the feet...hehe
e) Money [In the previous times, people use the Butter System, exchange foods and else, so, not require money...]
f) Simple transport

For the 20th century,
a) Best food and Best drinks,
b) Houses, brick houses...getting less and less those Rumah setinggan,
c) Quality clothing
d) Quality shoeses...sometime few pair of shoes
e) Lot money [Improve the living style...I guess, pair of Husband and Wife require around RM2000 per month for the simple life...basic requirement]
f) Transport, at lease Motor...
g) Computer without internet access...
h) Communication devices, such as 2G phones...

Wakaka...for recently life, 21st Century
a) Quality + tasty foods and cleaen + quality drinks,
b) Quality houses, nice looks one, styling one...
c) Good sense of art and styling clothing...gals are wear less and less...
d) Quality shoes...at lease had 2 or 3 pair of shoes per person...
e) Tonnes of money...[everything also require QUALITY wat...i had read a article yesterday, RM 3000 are not good enaf for a pair of Husband and Wife...really a bad news...]
f) Transport, CAR...
g) Computer with the internet access...minimun require is 56k dail-up connection devices and some required LAPTOP liao lu...mean mobile coputer set...
h) Communciation devices with GPRS...3G already...wow...BUT, still quite number of people using 2G but styling ge la...i think, still acceptable la....

Wakaka...how do u think about it?anything to add in?pls tell me...give comment la...
Suffer for recently life...Everyone must work SO HARD ho...hehe

nice day!!!

Construction Management Y2S3 final examination TimeTable

Hmm...i get it yesterday night...thanks SyeeMun sent me.

This are the subjects i going to sit in this final examination.

18th April 2006 Management of Building Production
20th April 2006 Construction Law
22nd April 2006 Construction Project Management 1
24th April 2006 Construction Practice
27th April 2006 Building Cibstruction 4

Wow, jsut 5 subjects, but there are good enaf to kill me...Do u know y?Coz i have studies nothing during the lecturer class...Hope i can get credit for those subjects above...

Everyone wishing me LUCKY la...thanks...Namo Amitabha

-^@^-

March 26, 2006

Combination

Refer to the title above, i'm sure u all able to guess, wat i going to write in the following blog update...

I'm sorry, long time have no update my blog page, quite number of topic appear in my mind sometimes...but i have no write down the points and then forgot liao lo...so sorry...so, i jsut combined few topics in one blog...[blek]

First, the topic i wanna discuss is about the SENSE OF LIKE AND DISLIKE...anyone got any idea for this topic?hehe...

Like mean to find pleasant or attractive; enjoy; to want to have; to feel about; regard; to be pleasing to...

Dislike mean to regard with distaste or aversion or an attitude or a feeling of distaste or aversion...

[Haha...i don know wat are the meaning as well, jsut copy from somewhere else...hehe...just have a look la...]

Actually like and dislike very easy to identify out when u get somethings, meet someone, or go somewhere...easy u will feel Like or Dislike right the moment. If u feel happiness at the moment, then mean u like that, u will not feel like leaving or seperate it althought u r there for long time. In another side, IF u feel dislike at the moment, u cannot stand one more second there, u feeling wanna leave on the sport or sometime u lost control will get mad on the sport...am i right?

Few weeks...i feel that my EQ getting low and low when i communicate during the society with peoples. I think i should take care about it and IF can, go learn some communication skill, get some PR and HR course for improve my society skill. My face + my feeling are so hard to control by my own, when i feel like or dislike, so easy can get from my face, althought i really try hard to control and cover, but...still not work for the recently life.

Is it good if u always smiling face to everyone?Or u rather to become a nature people, like or dislike all shown on face?what u prefer to?
People call those people who always smilling and fight at the back as 'Smiling face tiger'...hehe...

Before the feeling change to LOVE, i'm sure it start with LIKE...right?
*think about it la...*

Second,Is it really hard to speak out the 3 words, I LOVE U?
I ahd discover this topic for long time, i mean i practice this to my ownself first, then observe frens surrounding me and people who able to provide me information...BUT, still less information i collected...is too bad.

I observed that, majority of HUMAN BEING who living in those conservative country such as Malaysia are hard to speak out this kind of words from mouth.WHY de?
Althought during the singing time, peoples are not really speak or sing the 3 words properly...donno y...shy shy de...or people try to skip the 3 words...wakaka...
Lucky, among my frens, this have no happened la...hehe...great start off point.

In majority of Chinese's educated students are very hard to said this 3 words to his/her own family as well. They rather to keep the love feeling inside the heart and not speak it out to his/her lovely family members.

Let take me as a sample, i'm the one who really chinese educated and influence by traditional chinese culture. i not often to tell my parent I love them so much, but, i believe them can get my love by my action done [sometime they feel hurt as well...coz they not UN wat i done...but i will try hard to let them understand me, PLS, trust me...]
Since so long, i had only speak the 3 words, I LOVE U to A person only. YA, JUST A PERSON...Donno y, i just feel that wanna to tell her, to prove myself i'm sincerely...Do u get it? [Maybe she not hear it as well...coz i have no speak it louder...shy shy de...]

I really seperate and UNDERSTOOD the meaning of LOVE and LIKE...no matter how, major time i will use the word of LIKE to anyone...but LOVE, no way to me...

*hmm...donno wat to write liao...

Donno y...my feeling so strong wanna to meet u...right this moment...YA...i MISS YA...

March 04, 2006

Suicide

If u r someone who always reading newspaper or familiar to latest news...I believe, u may know the latest and hot news happened in our country - Suicide, a young mom bring along with her only and youngest daugther jump from 4th floor, the young daugther dead on the sport and the mom declare death on the way send to Hospital.

Suicide define as the act or an instance of intentionally killing oneself; the destruction or ruin of one's own interests: It is professional suicide to involve oneself in illegal practices; or one who commits suicide. [source from - http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=suicide].

If let me define is A person who terminate life contract with The God.

There is a right for u to terminate ur life contract?
This may a good argument title to u all to argue...U all may have diff thinking and idea for this question,But for me, i strongly disagree and not support someone go terminate life contract, mean suicide. I still strongly holding a very simply mind set, Every problem must have its solutions to solve...am i right?or am i too stupid to have this sasade's view?

Actually, this case was happened in my hourse area and our family knew the decedent.
Relationship - She is my granny (Y Po)'s god son's wife...

From the newspaper, they reported that the decedent,
a) Family problem
b) Chan Hou Yik Wat Zhing (Illness after post partum)
c) She is a very quiet person

Maybe there are certain hiden problems and we donno...
I believe, if those happened, the person who responsibility for are,
a) Decedent, ownself
b) Her husband
c) Family members.

Her family members should give the most heavy caring and family love to the decedent, especially her husband. From the report news, decedent's husband who are working outside and jsut came back once a month. Additional, the young mom always locked herself and younger daugther inside room and have less communicate with others...Maybe this is the main reason who made the decedent to suicide.
From the above statement, i believe those problem can be solve easily.

Her husband can back home often and always give calls to his wife who are lonely at home. (From this case, i know that the husband work not so far from his house, 1 hours driving distance). Besides that, a responsible for a husband must able to let wife feel security everytime, every moment. Try to not made ur wife worries...

If u really feel that unhappy with recently life, y the decedent have not try to tell the truth with her family or husband and try to come out solution?
If u feel that previous moment are more happy than the life after married, then y not decide to divorce?Maybe it is a good solution as well...

Finally, i don know wat can i write anymore...just feel woefully for this case happened...Here wishing her family can be strong and settle down. Namo Amitabha