March 04, 2006

Suicide

If u r someone who always reading newspaper or familiar to latest news...I believe, u may know the latest and hot news happened in our country - Suicide, a young mom bring along with her only and youngest daugther jump from 4th floor, the young daugther dead on the sport and the mom declare death on the way send to Hospital.

Suicide define as the act or an instance of intentionally killing oneself; the destruction or ruin of one's own interests: It is professional suicide to involve oneself in illegal practices; or one who commits suicide. [source from - http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=suicide].

If let me define is A person who terminate life contract with The God.

There is a right for u to terminate ur life contract?
This may a good argument title to u all to argue...U all may have diff thinking and idea for this question,But for me, i strongly disagree and not support someone go terminate life contract, mean suicide. I still strongly holding a very simply mind set, Every problem must have its solutions to solve...am i right?or am i too stupid to have this sasade's view?

Actually, this case was happened in my hourse area and our family knew the decedent.
Relationship - She is my granny (Y Po)'s god son's wife...

From the newspaper, they reported that the decedent,
a) Family problem
b) Chan Hou Yik Wat Zhing (Illness after post partum)
c) She is a very quiet person

Maybe there are certain hiden problems and we donno...
I believe, if those happened, the person who responsibility for are,
a) Decedent, ownself
b) Her husband
c) Family members.

Her family members should give the most heavy caring and family love to the decedent, especially her husband. From the report news, decedent's husband who are working outside and jsut came back once a month. Additional, the young mom always locked herself and younger daugther inside room and have less communicate with others...Maybe this is the main reason who made the decedent to suicide.
From the above statement, i believe those problem can be solve easily.

Her husband can back home often and always give calls to his wife who are lonely at home. (From this case, i know that the husband work not so far from his house, 1 hours driving distance). Besides that, a responsible for a husband must able to let wife feel security everytime, every moment. Try to not made ur wife worries...

If u really feel that unhappy with recently life, y the decedent have not try to tell the truth with her family or husband and try to come out solution?
If u feel that previous moment are more happy than the life after married, then y not decide to divorce?Maybe it is a good solution as well...

Finally, i don know wat can i write anymore...just feel woefully for this case happened...Here wishing her family can be strong and settle down. Namo Amitabha

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